charbie
Ideal_Rock
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is a better woman
ok, so the point to this post is that now that i''m married, i feel like i need to make sure my husband comes across more polished, or professional or something, because i''m afraid it might reflect poorly on me for "letting" him do/get away with certain things. kind of like the parent who would be horrified if they found out their child was the smelly kid at school and they had no idea! make sense?
for example, hubs has a potluck at work wednesday that he told me about on friday. he said he was just planning on stopping at the store to pick up some cookies or a bag of chips. i was horrified and said i would obviously make something for him to bring and contribute. he looked at me kind of funny and said, "i''ve always just brought cookies from the store." i then spent this evening making a nice dessert for him to bring in.
i''ve always known that these "details" really don''t phase him. it just really is not in his DNA. he is very scientific, methodical, and anything that might be even remotely "girly fluff" just doesn''t interest him in the least.
anyone else experience this at all?? or am i crazy?
ok, so the point to this post is that now that i''m married, i feel like i need to make sure my husband comes across more polished, or professional or something, because i''m afraid it might reflect poorly on me for "letting" him do/get away with certain things. kind of like the parent who would be horrified if they found out their child was the smelly kid at school and they had no idea! make sense?
for example, hubs has a potluck at work wednesday that he told me about on friday. he said he was just planning on stopping at the store to pick up some cookies or a bag of chips. i was horrified and said i would obviously make something for him to bring and contribute. he looked at me kind of funny and said, "i''ve always just brought cookies from the store." i then spent this evening making a nice dessert for him to bring in.
i''ve always known that these "details" really don''t phase him. it just really is not in his DNA. he is very scientific, methodical, and anything that might be even remotely "girly fluff" just doesn''t interest him in the least.
anyone else experience this at all?? or am i crazy?