Ladyoflovers
Shiny_Rock
- Joined
- Dec 5, 2006
- Messages
- 136
Hello,
I know this is very personal and most of you may find it unnecessary but i guess this bachelor party is going to cancel our wedding plans. long story short, i wanted to tell him that the thought of his being alone in a private room with a stripper was just unacceptable to me no matter what an intercourse takes place or they just get an inch close to each other or she does her thing. he said i shouldn''t tell him what to do or what not to do, then we shouldn''t just get married at all. i said fine.
there isn''t even a planned event yet. i just wanted to tell him how i felt about these kinds of parties. i also emphasized that i was totally fine his going to strip clubs and watching naked girls on the stage as long as he sits at his table. but hotel rooms, vip rooms, or houses is just bothering me. especially when i saw his cousin''s bachelor party pictures from last year as my FI still keeps them! it makes me sick seeing him with that girl in pictures and his now wife and mother of a 3-month-old has no idea what went on that night. my understanding of "having fun" is definitely not this. and i don''t think i want to cope with this any more. i''m sure there should be some other guys somewhere who wouldn''t prefer private sessions with strippers over their 6 years of relationships. i''m just heartbroken.
I know this is very personal and most of you may find it unnecessary but i guess this bachelor party is going to cancel our wedding plans. long story short, i wanted to tell him that the thought of his being alone in a private room with a stripper was just unacceptable to me no matter what an intercourse takes place or they just get an inch close to each other or she does her thing. he said i shouldn''t tell him what to do or what not to do, then we shouldn''t just get married at all. i said fine.
there isn''t even a planned event yet. i just wanted to tell him how i felt about these kinds of parties. i also emphasized that i was totally fine his going to strip clubs and watching naked girls on the stage as long as he sits at his table. but hotel rooms, vip rooms, or houses is just bothering me. especially when i saw his cousin''s bachelor party pictures from last year as my FI still keeps them! it makes me sick seeing him with that girl in pictures and his now wife and mother of a 3-month-old has no idea what went on that night. my understanding of "having fun" is definitely not this. and i don''t think i want to cope with this any more. i''m sure there should be some other guys somewhere who wouldn''t prefer private sessions with strippers over their 6 years of relationships. i''m just heartbroken.