luckystar112
Ideal_Rock
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I am. For sure.
I think I''m going to have a heart attack before I''m 30. I just don''t know how to control it! It just seems like there are so many people lacking common sense out there.
For instance, around midnight last night my boyfriend and I were getting ready to leave a sports bar. It was actually BW3s for anyone that has one in the area. Anyway, so we are walking through the parking lot, and we see a car blocking us in our spot. There were like 3 adults and 2 very small children. The adults are all chatting it up. (Mind you, they aren''t in a parking SPOT, they are just in the middle of the lot.) So I figure that they are going to move once they see my boyfriend and I get in our vehicle. We get in and they don''t move. We wait...and wait...and wait. I put my foot on the break, thinking the red light shining on them will remind them that we are trying to leave. They don''t move. Don''t even flinch, just keep chatting it up. At this point, my boyfriend tells me just to go forward. He has a truck, so we can easily just go over the curb and through a couple of bushes to freedom. I''m like, "No. We are going to wait here until these idiots move." So we wait. And wait. I think one of the ladies is strapping in her kid, but then I realize she is changing its diaper. Red light is still shining on them. I''m backed up a little bit now. Nothing...doesn''t even phase them. Finally I just go forward.
Anyway, this pissed me off SO BAD. I was talking to my boyfriend about what complete morons they are. He goes, "well say it was you and someone wanted to get out, you''d probably be like ''can you give me a second to strap in my baby!!!'' ".
Then I went on a tangent. I was like, "No, actually I wouldn''t...and here''s why. For one, my child would be in BED at midnight. Two, if I wanted to chat it up with people I''d do it in an actual parking space. 3. If people were walking to their car I wouldn''t strap my kid in first, I''d tell one of the other adults to move the car out of the way then walk the 10 feet to where they are!!" Not to mention the whole time we were sitting there they weren''t strapping in their kids, they were just annoying us.
So yeah. I get annoyed easily. And I always play these little games with myself that don''t do anything but make me more pissed off. In that example, it was when I said I wanted to stay and wait and see how long it took them to snap out of their stupidity. I do that at restaurants too. If a waitress forgets to give me something, I won''t remind them. I''ll wait to see how long it takes them to remember, the whole while getting more annoyed with them.
Why am I like this?
And driving....ugh...don''t even get me started. I am a completely different person while driving. The words I use to describe people talking on their cells phones I don''t even know if you can find in a dictionary.
How do I stop this? lol. I know it is unhealthy. I just feel like its embedded into who I am. See the weird thing is that I am NOT confrontational person. I hold everything inside. I very very very rarely confront a stranger. Can holding it all inside be whats making me so mad? Should I start telling people that they are idiots? I don''t want to get killed either....
I think I''m going to have a heart attack before I''m 30. I just don''t know how to control it! It just seems like there are so many people lacking common sense out there.
For instance, around midnight last night my boyfriend and I were getting ready to leave a sports bar. It was actually BW3s for anyone that has one in the area. Anyway, so we are walking through the parking lot, and we see a car blocking us in our spot. There were like 3 adults and 2 very small children. The adults are all chatting it up. (Mind you, they aren''t in a parking SPOT, they are just in the middle of the lot.) So I figure that they are going to move once they see my boyfriend and I get in our vehicle. We get in and they don''t move. We wait...and wait...and wait. I put my foot on the break, thinking the red light shining on them will remind them that we are trying to leave. They don''t move. Don''t even flinch, just keep chatting it up. At this point, my boyfriend tells me just to go forward. He has a truck, so we can easily just go over the curb and through a couple of bushes to freedom. I''m like, "No. We are going to wait here until these idiots move." So we wait. And wait. I think one of the ladies is strapping in her kid, but then I realize she is changing its diaper. Red light is still shining on them. I''m backed up a little bit now. Nothing...doesn''t even phase them. Finally I just go forward.
Anyway, this pissed me off SO BAD. I was talking to my boyfriend about what complete morons they are. He goes, "well say it was you and someone wanted to get out, you''d probably be like ''can you give me a second to strap in my baby!!!'' ".
Then I went on a tangent. I was like, "No, actually I wouldn''t...and here''s why. For one, my child would be in BED at midnight. Two, if I wanted to chat it up with people I''d do it in an actual parking space. 3. If people were walking to their car I wouldn''t strap my kid in first, I''d tell one of the other adults to move the car out of the way then walk the 10 feet to where they are!!" Not to mention the whole time we were sitting there they weren''t strapping in their kids, they were just annoying us.
So yeah. I get annoyed easily. And I always play these little games with myself that don''t do anything but make me more pissed off. In that example, it was when I said I wanted to stay and wait and see how long it took them to snap out of their stupidity. I do that at restaurants too. If a waitress forgets to give me something, I won''t remind them. I''ll wait to see how long it takes them to remember, the whole while getting more annoyed with them.
Why am I like this?
And driving....ugh...don''t even get me started. I am a completely different person while driving. The words I use to describe people talking on their cells phones I don''t even know if you can find in a dictionary.
How do I stop this? lol. I know it is unhealthy. I just feel like its embedded into who I am. See the weird thing is that I am NOT confrontational person. I hold everything inside. I very very very rarely confront a stranger. Can holding it all inside be whats making me so mad? Should I start telling people that they are idiots? I don''t want to get killed either....