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Brilliant_Rock
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For the last several weeks, there has been a lady calling my house at least 3 or 4 times a day. She keeps leaving messages on my machine saying, "P-- why don''t you call me? I''m so lonesome, I wish you would call me. I cry all the time." I''ve picked up the phone on a few occasions and told her that she has the wrong number. She apologizes and then calls back within minutes. I tell her again, and she apologizes, and says information keeps giving her our number. Sure enough she''ll call again and again, and doesn''t seem to understand that she''s dialing the same number.
Well lately, the phone messages have become more and more concerning. She says she cries all the time, that she doesn''t know why she''s being treated this way, that she got P-- when she was 3 months old and she gave her everything...
Anyway I figured out that the reason she keeps dialing my number is because my husband''s name is the same as the husband of the lady she''s looking for. SO I got on Facebook, out of curiosity, and actually found this person AND her husband. I emailed both of them, and no response yet. I emailed her son, and no response yet. I emailed her husband''s brother or cousin or nephew, and still nothing. I looked up the lady and her husband on Google, they''re both apparently co-authors of some book about caring for your elderly parents. Ironic. Her husband is a marriage and family phsycologist who practices locally.
I called her back the day before yesterday, and told her that she''s been leaving messages on my machine but she''s dialing the wrong number. Then I told her I found the lady she''s looking for on the internet, and if she gives me a few days they''ll get back to me and I can try to have them call her. The NEXT day she calls again! With the same message! At this point, I''m assuming that this lady is elderly and maybe has dementia or altzheimers, and she just doesn''t understand. Today she called me and left just one message, "P-- please call me, all I do is cry all the time. Why have you treated me like this, why have you done this? All I do is cry all the time. I wish you all the bad luck in the world for treating me like this." And then she stopped calling.
What would you guys do if you had this same problem? It''s getting really concerning, and I''ve done as much as I can do to help this person.
Well lately, the phone messages have become more and more concerning. She says she cries all the time, that she doesn''t know why she''s being treated this way, that she got P-- when she was 3 months old and she gave her everything...
Anyway I figured out that the reason she keeps dialing my number is because my husband''s name is the same as the husband of the lady she''s looking for. SO I got on Facebook, out of curiosity, and actually found this person AND her husband. I emailed both of them, and no response yet. I emailed her son, and no response yet. I emailed her husband''s brother or cousin or nephew, and still nothing. I looked up the lady and her husband on Google, they''re both apparently co-authors of some book about caring for your elderly parents. Ironic. Her husband is a marriage and family phsycologist who practices locally.
I called her back the day before yesterday, and told her that she''s been leaving messages on my machine but she''s dialing the wrong number. Then I told her I found the lady she''s looking for on the internet, and if she gives me a few days they''ll get back to me and I can try to have them call her. The NEXT day she calls again! With the same message! At this point, I''m assuming that this lady is elderly and maybe has dementia or altzheimers, and she just doesn''t understand. Today she called me and left just one message, "P-- please call me, all I do is cry all the time. Why have you treated me like this, why have you done this? All I do is cry all the time. I wish you all the bad luck in the world for treating me like this." And then she stopped calling.
What would you guys do if you had this same problem? It''s getting really concerning, and I''ve done as much as I can do to help this person.