I''ve been reading threads and viewing pics all througout this forum for several months. Last night a conversation with my boyfreind prompted me to seek advice from fellow pricescope memebers.
I moved in with my boyfreind 3 months ago. (We had been dating for 2.5 years priorto me moving in, and endured an 8 month long distance period, as he relocated from out hometown to go to law school. I moved in at the end of his first year.) I am also a student, and will be starting at a new university this fall to finish my BS/MS. We have an absolutely amazing relationship, and have been planning, little by little, our lives together in the future.
He comes from a well off family, who pretty much support us right now, by paying for our living costs. I do recently landed a paid internship, but that is precisely where the problems start. I am completely financially independant of my family, which is torn (divorced) and constantly tries to make ends meet. I have been fortunate to afford to go to school up here because of a wonderful financial aid scholarship. Last year, I lived in dorms and got by with a low paying part time job and student loans. Because of my and my mother''s minimal income, I was able to recieve this great financial aid scholarship. I mention my mother''s income because being 22, Federal Financial aid still considers me a dependant, even though my mother doesn''t support >50% of my living costs and I haven''t lived with her for over a year!
It may seem early, but I am worried about recieving enough $ to go to school for the next few years, because this paid internship is quite paid indeed. My boyfreind mentioned that he wanted to gert married right after law school, as he will then be able to support himself, and some. Last night we talked about my future finances with school, and we are trying to figure out if it would be beneficial for us to simply get marrried now in order for me to be independant, hence recieve $ to afford school, for the next few years. For this to work, and the federal program to recognize me as an independant, we would need to settle the deal ( get married) by the end of this year.
Is this a wild, unrealistic, impulsive idea?? Or can this be a fathomable way to overcome glitches in the system?
We also would, of course have a proper wedding celebration after we are finished with school as planned!
(I apologize in advance for all the annoying technical/background info)
I moved in with my boyfreind 3 months ago. (We had been dating for 2.5 years priorto me moving in, and endured an 8 month long distance period, as he relocated from out hometown to go to law school. I moved in at the end of his first year.) I am also a student, and will be starting at a new university this fall to finish my BS/MS. We have an absolutely amazing relationship, and have been planning, little by little, our lives together in the future.
He comes from a well off family, who pretty much support us right now, by paying for our living costs. I do recently landed a paid internship, but that is precisely where the problems start. I am completely financially independant of my family, which is torn (divorced) and constantly tries to make ends meet. I have been fortunate to afford to go to school up here because of a wonderful financial aid scholarship. Last year, I lived in dorms and got by with a low paying part time job and student loans. Because of my and my mother''s minimal income, I was able to recieve this great financial aid scholarship. I mention my mother''s income because being 22, Federal Financial aid still considers me a dependant, even though my mother doesn''t support >50% of my living costs and I haven''t lived with her for over a year!
It may seem early, but I am worried about recieving enough $ to go to school for the next few years, because this paid internship is quite paid indeed. My boyfreind mentioned that he wanted to gert married right after law school, as he will then be able to support himself, and some. Last night we talked about my future finances with school, and we are trying to figure out if it would be beneficial for us to simply get marrried now in order for me to be independant, hence recieve $ to afford school, for the next few years. For this to work, and the federal program to recognize me as an independant, we would need to settle the deal ( get married) by the end of this year.
Is this a wild, unrealistic, impulsive idea?? Or can this be a fathomable way to overcome glitches in the system?
We also would, of course have a proper wedding celebration after we are finished with school as planned!
(I apologize in advance for all the annoying technical/background info)