Long story short. Dated my (somewhat ex) boyfriend for two and a half years before we broke up because he still wasn''t sure about marrying me. Had no contact for four weeks and then starting hanging out again for a few weeks, during which he expressed that when he really starts to think he could be losing me he seems to feel more focused and clear on the future, which led me to once again initiate a no-contact that began three weeks ago. One week ago he texted me to say he was thinking of me...and I wrote back a nice but not reciprocally affectionate text. A wrinkle in the situation is that our good friends got engaged and I''m hosting a party for them and decided the appropriate thing to do was to invite him. He responded to the mass invite using our pet names and saying how hard it was to be on vacation with his family without me last week. I feel that I''m in a stuck situation where the situation is so unfinished that I will never move on or be ready to date, but unless I date someone else I will never move on. So I signed up on a dating website tonight and then got nervous about what the parameters of our break were and emailed him to set up a meeting to discuss it. Not really sure what to even discuss when we meet. I don''t know whether to ask him not be with anyone or to agree to that during the break, because maybe he needs to feel like it''s really a break and the threat of losing me is right in front of him in order to face things and finally make a decision. On the other hand, I don''t want to screw anything up by one of us moving on in a way that taints things later on. I''m also not sure how to proceed after the engagement party in terms of no contact. Just absolutely no contact for an unlimited period of time? Any advice on any of these things would be much appreciated...