hazel_eyes
Shiny_Rock
- Joined
- Apr 6, 2007
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Hi there everyone.
I''m totally new to the forum and have been reading up on rocky talky and show me the ring threads for a few weeks now.
Here''s my story. I''ve been going out with my bf for nearly 4 years now.
I owned a house in the city where we used to live, and he moved in with me a year and a half ago. I sold that house last year to move with him to his home town and buy a place together. We''ve been in our new place since before Christmas 2006.
I can''t seem to settle in this place. I''m lonely. I gave up alot of things to move here for ''us''. I only know a few people down here, and they''re all his friends and family.
I''ve got a good job here, but its not the kind of place you''re likely to make friends.
So........I told my bf that I''m not happy. That I thought things would play out differently. That it''s ok for him, he gets all the advantages of us moving here...someone to cook and clean and all his friends and family around him. What advantages do I get?
We''ve talked previously about the whole marriage and kids thing, and I really expected he would''ve proposed by now. I feel like I have no security at all. Am I being unreasonable?
Now he tells me that he''ll have a big tax bill to pay when he inherits his fathers business. So where does that leave us? Nowhere. He says he''s gonna propose before the end of September. I pointed out that I don''t want to do that if it means I''ll have to get a fake ring. So he''s not gonna do it now. I''ll be a lady in waiting for years to come and he seems fine with that. Well I''m not. I''m nearly 30 already. What am I gonna do?
I''m totally new to the forum and have been reading up on rocky talky and show me the ring threads for a few weeks now.
Here''s my story. I''ve been going out with my bf for nearly 4 years now.
I owned a house in the city where we used to live, and he moved in with me a year and a half ago. I sold that house last year to move with him to his home town and buy a place together. We''ve been in our new place since before Christmas 2006.
I can''t seem to settle in this place. I''m lonely. I gave up alot of things to move here for ''us''. I only know a few people down here, and they''re all his friends and family.
I''ve got a good job here, but its not the kind of place you''re likely to make friends.
So........I told my bf that I''m not happy. That I thought things would play out differently. That it''s ok for him, he gets all the advantages of us moving here...someone to cook and clean and all his friends and family around him. What advantages do I get?
We''ve talked previously about the whole marriage and kids thing, and I really expected he would''ve proposed by now. I feel like I have no security at all. Am I being unreasonable?
Now he tells me that he''ll have a big tax bill to pay when he inherits his fathers business. So where does that leave us? Nowhere. He says he''s gonna propose before the end of September. I pointed out that I don''t want to do that if it means I''ll have to get a fake ring. So he''s not gonna do it now. I''ll be a lady in waiting for years to come and he seems fine with that. Well I''m not. I''m nearly 30 already. What am I gonna do?