Buena Girl
Brilliant_Rock
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- Feb 25, 2004
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There have been several people in the past few months who have gotten new jobs and left the company where my b/f and I are employed. On their last day, every one of them coincidentally made the same comment to me about "I want an invite to the wedding". Each time, I have felt like screaming, "WHAT WEDDING?!?". There is no ring on my finger. My b/f and I have never told these people at work that we were even thinking of getting engaged! They all must assume that we will be getting engaged some day just because we have been dating for over 3 years.
Whenever people at work have asked me, I have always blown off the comment and said something like: No plans as yet. OR: IF we become engaged, that would probably be way off in the future. OR even: I don''t think we have been dating long enough to know if we want to stay together forever.
It really makes the waiting that much harder! It''s like the whole world expects it to happen, so why hasn''t it happened yet. Additionally, I feel like it may ruin some of the excitement. Apparently, all these people are expecting it to happen, so there will be no element of surprise when I finally get one.
One more thing-> Does anyone think that I actually need to invite these people who have invited themselves to my possible future wedding? I never gave any of them a direct answer. I usually said "No plans as yet".
It really makes the waiting that much harder! It''s like the whole world expects it to happen, so why hasn''t it happened yet. Additionally, I feel like it may ruin some of the excitement. Apparently, all these people are expecting it to happen, so there will be no element of surprise when I finally get one.
One more thing-> Does anyone think that I actually need to invite these people who have invited themselves to my possible future wedding? I never gave any of them a direct answer. I usually said "No plans as yet".