I asked about this before and I am facing similar situation again...Its about people you just meet want to stay with you...This time is a bit different, because I met this person once only at a meetingExchanged few words and exchanged tel nrs so we can keep in touch.So far so good,
She called me a week after and said that she would like to bring her husband with her and visit me on the weekend at 11am.so we could have lunch. I was taken by surprise totally.
I was not expecting this to be so forward.She asked if she should bring wine.I managed to say that we don''t drink wine at 11AM and told her not sure about my plans as yet.She said she would double check with me to see which day works better.
Now I do like this person and lunch sounds like a good idea , but I find this to be far to forward.Lunch out until I get to know her ? Am I wrong? Maybe I just got out of touch? The husband coming also???
Personaly I would not dream of inviting myself with my husband for lunch at someone place unless I know the people and even then I would prefer to get invited.What should I say? How not to attract this? I have no idea ? I am a friendly person, but not too friendly and this sort of thing started happening this year and never before...Any ideas? I really would prefer not to attract it on the first place.Maybe its acceptable these days? And I am not aware of it? Has anyone experienced this and is this normal these days? Someone please let me know..
She called me a week after and said that she would like to bring her husband with her and visit me on the weekend at 11am.so we could have lunch. I was taken by surprise totally.
I was not expecting this to be so forward.She asked if she should bring wine.I managed to say that we don''t drink wine at 11AM and told her not sure about my plans as yet.She said she would double check with me to see which day works better.
Now I do like this person and lunch sounds like a good idea , but I find this to be far to forward.Lunch out until I get to know her ? Am I wrong? Maybe I just got out of touch? The husband coming also???
Personaly I would not dream of inviting myself with my husband for lunch at someone place unless I know the people and even then I would prefer to get invited.What should I say? How not to attract this? I have no idea ? I am a friendly person, but not too friendly and this sort of thing started happening this year and never before...Any ideas? I really would prefer not to attract it on the first place.Maybe its acceptable these days? And I am not aware of it? Has anyone experienced this and is this normal these days? Someone please let me know..