gladyskristen
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Sigh... I''m feeling so down now.
We told my parents abt our engagement today and they were less than thrilled. Mayb it''s cos we''re both still students, but we''ve been dating for 4 yrs now! We stressed tt we''re only gonna get married 2+ yrs down the road, but my mum feels tt a long engagement is pointless and we shouldn''t get ourselves tied down that way. So we din get any blessing from them. They didn''t say tt we can''t be engaged or anything, but this feels really really really really bad.
I don''t know wot to think now. I''m from a traditional Chinese family, so their blessing is important to me. This is really sucking the whole damn joy out of my engagement...
I even find myself thinking, "So are we considered really engaged now or what?"
We told my parents abt our engagement today and they were less than thrilled. Mayb it''s cos we''re both still students, but we''ve been dating for 4 yrs now! We stressed tt we''re only gonna get married 2+ yrs down the road, but my mum feels tt a long engagement is pointless and we shouldn''t get ourselves tied down that way. So we din get any blessing from them. They didn''t say tt we can''t be engaged or anything, but this feels really really really really bad.
I don''t know wot to think now. I''m from a traditional Chinese family, so their blessing is important to me. This is really sucking the whole damn joy out of my engagement...
I even find myself thinking, "So are we considered really engaged now or what?"