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I agree with everything you’re saying. For me, I’m at least 60% happy, and it’s easier to ask myself if we could improve to get that extra 10% than to get 40% and be 100% happy! Good to poke holes in that fantasy.
We have three small kids and add in a pandemic and no family help… very hard to have time and space and energy for anything.
I have to say you're doing amazingly well already. To be hanging in there with 3 young kids and a pandemic a long way from family is an achievement. I think that if this is the source of the angst then it may be temporary. I'd try being kind to yourself and paying for some extra help so you guys can have some alone together time and also some personal/individual time alone. Or come up with some things that you can look forward to/hang on to. Once I felt better it'd be easier to see ways I could reinvest in myself and in each other.