JewelFreak
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I hope the time goes quickly, Momhappy -- faster than you expect. Having my in-laws visit was the same -- nothing in common, rude & coarse MIL, and they were just so much there. Don't feel guilty at all about your DH's golf! I'm sure he doesn't resent you. When my husband's parents came I assigned him to take them sight-seeing one day, all by himself, so I could breathe a little. They liked it too.
If you normally have a glass of something, do as usual. This is coming from a recovering alcoholic -- I would be SO mortified if my hosts gritted their teeth & gave up cocktails because of me! Because it doesn't bother me at all. The point of AA & other recovery programs is for people to learn to live in a drinking world, without drinking. Unless you fear she will grab the bottle & swill it down, go ahead with your life as you live it. Far from being sensitive, it is deeply embarrassing for others to make sacrifices for a perceived handicap that really isn't one.
Hang in there & breathe deeply!
--- Laurie
If you normally have a glass of something, do as usual. This is coming from a recovering alcoholic -- I would be SO mortified if my hosts gritted their teeth & gave up cocktails because of me! Because it doesn't bother me at all. The point of AA & other recovery programs is for people to learn to live in a drinking world, without drinking. Unless you fear she will grab the bottle & swill it down, go ahead with your life as you live it. Far from being sensitive, it is deeply embarrassing for others to make sacrifices for a perceived handicap that really isn't one.
Hang in there & breathe deeply!
--- Laurie