DivaDiamond007
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I try not to do this but I need to vent ladies. I got in the biggest fight with my MIL this morning.
She was watching James in her living area (DH and I live with her) and I was in the bathroom on the other end of the house getting ready for work. I notice that the tv is turned up really loud - lound enough to hurt my ears - and I wonder what''s going on. I finish getting ready and go in there. She''s watching tv while James is playing with his toys. I said that the tv seemed to be pretty loud and she said that he was making too much noise so she turned it up so she could hear it. I told her it was too loud and she had to turn it down. Then she snapped at me. She''s just trying to watch her show blah blah blah, James is being too loud blah blah blah. He''s almost 14 months old! He doesn''t know what quiet means!
I told her that she had to turn it down or he''d go to the sitter''s house - after all, that what''s she''s there for. Well, that really ticked MIL off.
Apparently I:
"don''t want to and don''t know how to care for my own child"
"don''t take care of my husband or family"
"am exactly like my mother - nasty and manipulative"
"threatened" her
Ohhhhhkkkaaayyyyy.
Because I *asked* her to turn the tv down.
Since DH and I have lived with his parents (almost 11 months) I have been more than gracious to have help with James - especially since I''ve been laid up with my leg injury. MIL has told me and DH numerous times that she loves having us around and enjoys helping with James. So WTH!? I ask her to turn the frickin tv down and suddenly I''m not a good mother and a bad person.
Needless to say I''m a mess and I''m really hurt by all of this. I''ve always gotten along with my MIL and now I just feel like it was all an act.
I called my husband at work and told him that he really needs to talk to her today and get this figured out. We need to get out of there or it''s going to ruin our marriage.
She was watching James in her living area (DH and I live with her) and I was in the bathroom on the other end of the house getting ready for work. I notice that the tv is turned up really loud - lound enough to hurt my ears - and I wonder what''s going on. I finish getting ready and go in there. She''s watching tv while James is playing with his toys. I said that the tv seemed to be pretty loud and she said that he was making too much noise so she turned it up so she could hear it. I told her it was too loud and she had to turn it down. Then she snapped at me. She''s just trying to watch her show blah blah blah, James is being too loud blah blah blah. He''s almost 14 months old! He doesn''t know what quiet means!
Apparently I:
"don''t want to and don''t know how to care for my own child"
"don''t take care of my husband or family"
"am exactly like my mother - nasty and manipulative"
"threatened" her
Ohhhhhkkkaaayyyyy.
Because I *asked* her to turn the tv down.
Since DH and I have lived with his parents (almost 11 months) I have been more than gracious to have help with James - especially since I''ve been laid up with my leg injury. MIL has told me and DH numerous times that she loves having us around and enjoys helping with James. So WTH!? I ask her to turn the frickin tv down and suddenly I''m not a good mother and a bad person.
Needless to say I''m a mess and I''m really hurt by all of this. I''ve always gotten along with my MIL and now I just feel like it was all an act.
I called my husband at work and told him that he really needs to talk to her today and get this figured out. We need to get out of there or it''s going to ruin our marriage.