Ashley21
Rough_Rock
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- Nov 11, 2008
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After talking with BF I know new information which makes me feel better about an upcoming proposal but disappointed and angry at the situation.
After purchasing a setting with BF almost a year and a half ago, I was anticipating a proposal soon. I figured we had a few main events coming up this year: Christmas, New Years, Valentines, my birthday in April, I graduated at the beginning of this May, and our 5 year anniversary was at the end of this May. Sadly enough, each event passed without a proposal.
I was getting a little worried since we had talked about getting married around next summer. After biting my tongue for a month, BF new something was bothering me and asked me to tell him. So I did. He said he was glad I said something because there was an issue.
We purchased the setting and matching band (from Shane Co.) for almost $1000 with tax a year and a half ago. As we are both college students we have a very small budget. We could not afford a diamond either so I suggested a simulant, at least temporarily until we could afford to put a real stone in it.
When I talked to BF this weekend he said he actually purchased **Removed by moderator. No discussion of simulants allowed per PS policies**. He proceeded to take it to Shane Co. to have it set. They said it would be $300 to set it since we didn't get a stone from them and $100 to change the head for a v-prong setting. They also said if we got it set somewhere else, it would void our warranty. Of course, BF did not have that much money in his bank account.
So the options are save all summer and try to pay for the $400 to set it, or possibly have it set somewhere else and get insurance on it from Jewelers Mutual. The entire ring is worth $1500 or less and I don't think insurance would cost that much. I'm not sure what our best option is or what the cheapest option is. By doing it somewhere else we would have to pay for an appraisal, setting, new head, yearly cleanings and inspections, and insurance. I'm not sure if that cost would be less than the $400 from Shane Co., but when I think about it, the insurance might cover more than Shane Co. would based on what I've read on their website and reviews.
So the good news is BF is trying to get it all together and still wants to get married next year. Bad news is we're stuck and not sure what to do.
After purchasing a setting with BF almost a year and a half ago, I was anticipating a proposal soon. I figured we had a few main events coming up this year: Christmas, New Years, Valentines, my birthday in April, I graduated at the beginning of this May, and our 5 year anniversary was at the end of this May. Sadly enough, each event passed without a proposal.
I was getting a little worried since we had talked about getting married around next summer. After biting my tongue for a month, BF new something was bothering me and asked me to tell him. So I did. He said he was glad I said something because there was an issue.
We purchased the setting and matching band (from Shane Co.) for almost $1000 with tax a year and a half ago. As we are both college students we have a very small budget. We could not afford a diamond either so I suggested a simulant, at least temporarily until we could afford to put a real stone in it.
When I talked to BF this weekend he said he actually purchased **Removed by moderator. No discussion of simulants allowed per PS policies**. He proceeded to take it to Shane Co. to have it set. They said it would be $300 to set it since we didn't get a stone from them and $100 to change the head for a v-prong setting. They also said if we got it set somewhere else, it would void our warranty. Of course, BF did not have that much money in his bank account.
So the options are save all summer and try to pay for the $400 to set it, or possibly have it set somewhere else and get insurance on it from Jewelers Mutual. The entire ring is worth $1500 or less and I don't think insurance would cost that much. I'm not sure what our best option is or what the cheapest option is. By doing it somewhere else we would have to pay for an appraisal, setting, new head, yearly cleanings and inspections, and insurance. I'm not sure if that cost would be less than the $400 from Shane Co., but when I think about it, the insurance might cover more than Shane Co. would based on what I've read on their website and reviews.
So the good news is BF is trying to get it all together and still wants to get married next year. Bad news is we're stuck and not sure what to do.