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Shiny_Rock
- Joined
- May 19, 2007
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I am wondering what the general opinion is about shopping together for a ring versus giving guidelines of what you like in a ring and letting him do the choosing. I can see benefits and drawbacks to both. Obviously picking out what I like would be nice because then I know it''s exactly what I want. But then I would be concerned that I''m asking for something that is out of his budget. I also think it would be nice to be completely surprised by what he chooses (with some direction!) because of the thought and consideration of my likes and tastes that he would put into making the decision.
That being said, I don''t know how he would even feel about ring shopping with me. I am afraid that if I were to bring it up he would feel pressured and be insulted that I think he can''t choose something I would like. If you brought up ring shopping together, how did you do it without him feeling pressured or insulted?
That being said, I don''t know how he would even feel about ring shopping with me. I am afraid that if I were to bring it up he would feel pressured and be insulted that I think he can''t choose something I would like. If you brought up ring shopping together, how did you do it without him feeling pressured or insulted?