KimberlyH
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My husband and I are subscibers to our local theater and attend plays about once a month locally and manage to see a show or two whenever we travel. I am often amazed at the behavior of other patrons, such as the following:
Entering the theater late, or getting up in the middle of the show.
Talking.
Cell phone use (text messaging, ringing, etc.).
Bringing children who are too young to sit through a show.
And the last, and least offensive but still bothersome, dressing like they're going to clean the yard, not attend a play. The traditionalist in me comes out when it comes to the performing arts. Even my jean lovin' husband, it takes some sweet talkin' to get him into much else, will don some slacks and a nice sweater, without a word from me, to attend a play.
These things happen in every city we've been to, from San Diego to New York. So it's not a small town theater thing.
And then we went to the movies twice this weekend. And I was amazed at the amount of talking, text messaging, moving around, and beer drinking that went on. At the first movie and older couple (60s I'd guess) discussed the movie throughout the entire show. The man didn't understand the concept of whispering and I could hear, very clearly, every word he said. His wife was having a hard time grasping what was going on and he was attempting to give her a play by play. Last night we went to a show and two groups of teenagers proceeded to get hammered and disrupt the entire theater. The ushers did nothing. Empty beer bottles were literally rolling down the aisle.
So are my theater going expectations too high? Is it now acceptable to have to distract those around you with your cell phone glare, text message beeps and ringing and people talking and moving around constantly? Is this part of our fast paced society that people can't still still, quietly, for a few hours and enjoy the entertainment they've paid for? I'm truly baffled by this and can't stop thinking about it today. Maybe I've been on vacation too long
Entering the theater late, or getting up in the middle of the show.
Talking.
Cell phone use (text messaging, ringing, etc.).
Bringing children who are too young to sit through a show.
And the last, and least offensive but still bothersome, dressing like they're going to clean the yard, not attend a play. The traditionalist in me comes out when it comes to the performing arts. Even my jean lovin' husband, it takes some sweet talkin' to get him into much else, will don some slacks and a nice sweater, without a word from me, to attend a play.
These things happen in every city we've been to, from San Diego to New York. So it's not a small town theater thing.
And then we went to the movies twice this weekend. And I was amazed at the amount of talking, text messaging, moving around, and beer drinking that went on. At the first movie and older couple (60s I'd guess) discussed the movie throughout the entire show. The man didn't understand the concept of whispering and I could hear, very clearly, every word he said. His wife was having a hard time grasping what was going on and he was attempting to give her a play by play. Last night we went to a show and two groups of teenagers proceeded to get hammered and disrupt the entire theater. The ushers did nothing. Empty beer bottles were literally rolling down the aisle.
So are my theater going expectations too high? Is it now acceptable to have to distract those around you with your cell phone glare, text message beeps and ringing and people talking and moving around constantly? Is this part of our fast paced society that people can't still still, quietly, for a few hours and enjoy the entertainment they've paid for? I'm truly baffled by this and can't stop thinking about it today. Maybe I've been on vacation too long