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Brilliant_Rock
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I never imagined this would be controversial at all, but apparently it is.
In lieu of wedding favors we were planning on leaving a token or small card at each guests place to be dropped in a bucket or bowl. We were going to select four charities with short explanations why we chose them (i.e. my grandmother died of Alzheimer''s, so Alzheimer''s Association was one of them) and then give each guest the liberty to select which charity they preferred. Both J and I found most wedding favors to be useless and a waste of money (unless edible of course!) so we were thinking about going this route.
UNTIL TODAY! I picked up a new bridal mag (splurge impulse buy) and read a whole section on how people feel about donations and charitable contributions in lieu of favors. Some said they thought it was not a "favor" at all and that donations should be made anonymously and not as a "wedding favor." Some even labeled it as "tacky". I was kind of shocked, as I find any sort of charitable contribution to be a feel good thing.
What do all of you other brides think?? Would it bug you to not get a favor at all? Or to choose one of four charities to have a donation made in your name, instead of getting a favor?
In lieu of wedding favors we were planning on leaving a token or small card at each guests place to be dropped in a bucket or bowl. We were going to select four charities with short explanations why we chose them (i.e. my grandmother died of Alzheimer''s, so Alzheimer''s Association was one of them) and then give each guest the liberty to select which charity they preferred. Both J and I found most wedding favors to be useless and a waste of money (unless edible of course!) so we were thinking about going this route.
UNTIL TODAY! I picked up a new bridal mag (splurge impulse buy) and read a whole section on how people feel about donations and charitable contributions in lieu of favors. Some said they thought it was not a "favor" at all and that donations should be made anonymously and not as a "wedding favor." Some even labeled it as "tacky". I was kind of shocked, as I find any sort of charitable contribution to be a feel good thing.
What do all of you other brides think?? Would it bug you to not get a favor at all? Or to choose one of four charities to have a donation made in your name, instead of getting a favor?