I have been going back and forth on this for about a day now. Something that for most of you, you could have decided in about 1 minute, one way or another.
A neighbor rings my bell yesterday (usually I don't answer, I don't like unannounced visitors, but this time I did). She tells me she noticed that while I was away I had a pet sitting service, and could I give her their #, that she's leaving on a trip Wednesday through Monday and she needs her dog walked during the afternoon. Her husband will be home at night, but her dog is old, and she is afraid he'll go in the house if he doesn't get walked during the day. She asked me at one point why didn't I ask her to watch my cat, that she would have done it...I make a comment that although I've had one of the neighbors look in on the cat before for a couple of days here and there, this trip was way too many days and I just didn't want to ask, that sometimes I rather just pay someone and not bother anyone. She throws out certain comments like "but we're neighbors" and how some neighbors she doesn't even see, that they pull into to their garage and the door closes right behind them (something I do all the time). I started to feel guilty somehow and told her to let me look at my schedule that I would get back to her, that maybe I could walk her dog a couple of the days she's gone. I want to be nice and be a good neighbor, but at the same time I am hesitant - I don't know what she's all about (it was actually my first time meeting her, I've seen her husband and talked to her husband a lot more than I've seen her)...and walking a dog is more involved than looking in on a cat. The indecision is from part anxiety, part guilt, and part being afraid I will forever be obligated or that she'll start ringing my door bell all the time - I've got issues, I know.
If I decide to help out - I think I will only offer for the first 2 days - that way I can feel like I'm helping her out but not end up totally resenting it.
It shouldn't be this hard! I've got about 20 minutes before I gotta get back to her haha (I told her I'd let her know today in the a.m.)
What do you think I should do?