My fiance and I are looking at settings locally and I had preferred platinum but have seen more white gold settings that I like, probably due to the low inventory of platinum styles. I want something feminine and a reasonably thin with some small diamonds, possibly pave and/or engraving. Also, how important is it to match the quality of the center stone with the stones in the setting? Does anyone have any photos or designs they can show me or any website dealers that I should check out? I''ve noted Quest, Whiteflash and Blue Nile. And are any of these sites better for quality or service if I find equally great rings? Thanks!