zoebartlett
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Sorry this may be long winded...
For those of you who have relocated to a different area, how did you decide where to move to and how did you begin the process of job and/or house (or apt.) searching?
I''ve written about this before but not in a while. We''re *considering* moving, but to be honest, every time I think about actually leaving friends and family, I end up in tears. I don''t like the idea of leaving my job AT ALL, but we''re in a position where if we were going to move (even if it''s only for a year or two), now is a good time. Some of you know that my husband lost his job and since he''s going to look for a new job anyway, it may as well be some place that intrigues us. We both grew up in the state we live in and my husband has never lived anywhere else but our state. My parents are here and his whole family is here. Oddly enough though, I feel more tied to our state than he does, and change is hard for me. I got my current teaching job 4 years ago in a different area than where we were living when we met. He moved here to be with me, so I could pursue this opportunity. Now I kind of feel like I should do the same for him. My husband can''t see spending the rest of his life here, and he really wants to experience a different place. We can always decide to come back, but I''m having a harder time with this than he is.
The good news is that while certain districts may not always be hiring, the teaching profession is needed everywhere. My husband is a database developer and a data analyst, so I''m assuming he can find a job anywhere too.
So now here we are...
If you''ve relocated, at what point did you take time off from work to go check out a new place? What kind of leg work did you do before that point?
Thanks in advance for any thoughts and/or advice you may have.
For those of you who have relocated to a different area, how did you decide where to move to and how did you begin the process of job and/or house (or apt.) searching?
I''ve written about this before but not in a while. We''re *considering* moving, but to be honest, every time I think about actually leaving friends and family, I end up in tears. I don''t like the idea of leaving my job AT ALL, but we''re in a position where if we were going to move (even if it''s only for a year or two), now is a good time. Some of you know that my husband lost his job and since he''s going to look for a new job anyway, it may as well be some place that intrigues us. We both grew up in the state we live in and my husband has never lived anywhere else but our state. My parents are here and his whole family is here. Oddly enough though, I feel more tied to our state than he does, and change is hard for me. I got my current teaching job 4 years ago in a different area than where we were living when we met. He moved here to be with me, so I could pursue this opportunity. Now I kind of feel like I should do the same for him. My husband can''t see spending the rest of his life here, and he really wants to experience a different place. We can always decide to come back, but I''m having a harder time with this than he is.
The good news is that while certain districts may not always be hiring, the teaching profession is needed everywhere. My husband is a database developer and a data analyst, so I''m assuming he can find a job anywhere too.
So now here we are...
If you''ve relocated, at what point did you take time off from work to go check out a new place? What kind of leg work did you do before that point?
Thanks in advance for any thoughts and/or advice you may have.