NakedFinger
Brilliant_Rock
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Ok, so as a "LIW", do you give your FMIL a mother's day gift? I assume so right? Depending on your relationship with her? I mean my FF always gives my mom flowers/card and such...(but he says its because she has been his only mother figure, not so much just because she will be his MIL).
Here is my question...my FF's mom died when he was 5 years old (from breast cancer, so sad). So for the first 5 years of our relationship, it was just his dad (never really had anything long term, or remarried in the 20 years since his wife's death). Well then 2 years ago he started dating someone, and then last year they got married. So when they were dating, obviously she wasnt a "mother", but now that they are married, she is officially my FF's step-mother. So my question on the gift giving situation is 1) as a step mother to him, to I still give her a "mothers day" gift, and 2) do you give them as your "FMIL" or wait until she is your MIL?
Thanks gals!