I think that's a really unfortunate take. The reality is, we never know what another person is going through. My husband is one of those people who has never had a regular job. Turns out he had undiagnosed ADHD and autism. My kids both have autism, too, and while I expect they will work I would not be at all surprised if it was less conventional work. I don't think any of them is less than because of that.I'm with @Ionysis. Privately, I have more respect for people who spend at least some portion of their lives working outside the home, even if not for very long, having to be suited and booted and at their desks looking alert by 8 am, experiencing challenges like bosses and co-workers, and knowing what it's like to have to produce, and generating taxes, than I do for people who have never worked. (I don't count people who take career breaks to have kids; I'm talking about people who have never had a job.)
That's one of the reasons I don't have much respect for Kate Middleton, who did absolutely nothing for many years between college and marriage, and who has consistently done a fraction of the engagements that all the other royals do, including those who are decades older than her. I think that never working outside the home is taking the easy way out, and it's just lazy, frankly. This is just my private opinion. As a very hard worker myself, this is how never-workers appear to me.
This isn't really about the kids issue. I know people who have never had kids and who don't have a real job. They mess about forming a company of one and appointing themselves CEO.
Funnily enough, I was reflecting the other day about how many people I know who don't have real jobs. It's a lot. After graduation, everybody was fast off the starting blocks, but in middle age, many seem to have lost their enthusiasm for work, regardless of whether they have kids or not. It's interesting.
Heck, if we want to start discarding people because they don't have conventional achievements, throw me out because I'm a high school drop out. I probably don't deserve respect, either.
In my experience, the most interesting and strongest people didn't get that way working a 9 to 5 job. There is a heck of a lot more to life than that.
And I say this as a mom who has always worked full time, in some pretty impressive positions; The least interesting thing about me is my resume.