plan it in 4 months or 14 months?

[LadyBlue]

4 MONTHS!!!

I have a four month engagement and it was perfect

 

[jcarlylew]

i say 4 months too, and hire a wedding planner if budget allows!

 

[iloveny]

We planned our wedding all on our own in 3 months. It was pretty easy, but we only had 25 guests. We got married in Central Park, and like you, if we didn''t do it now, we would have had to wait until the spring (I just got married 2 weeks ago!) It was perfect- we had a 1/2 hr ceremony, and a dinner after at a nice restaurant in Manhattan. We also had a "rehearsal dinner" the night before at a fun Mexican restaurant. We didn''t have a bridal party, and we just had a guitar player and a singer. It was, in my opinion, Perfect, and I couldn''t imagine doing it any other way! Good luck!