Ara Ann
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Date: 3/13/2010 7:17:57 PM
Author: IloveAsschers13
What Galatiea said... I totally agree with her. I think they might have some hesitation in telling the whole church something that is their business. I don't think they should have *broadcasted* their 'marriage' but does it really affect you *other than emotionally* one way or the other, that they are/aren't married? Doubtful.
Nope it doesn't affect me one way or the other, besides the fact that she asked me to take part in helping her plan for the wedding and 1. I don't feel that close to her, in a friendship role after all of this came to light, to understand why she wants to include me and 2. The fact that she lied to me on many occasions abut already being married, when she didn't *need* to lie to me, as I am not the 'whole church'. We had confided some personal things to each other and she was very open about some things, but felt compelled to continue to talk about her 'marriage' to me.
One more time, to make this clear...she is in a leadership role, she put herself into that position, knowing she was lying about her marriage. Leaders within the church should have a higher level of personal integrity and responsibility...if she felt she had to hide something, then she shouldn't have put herself into that kind of a role until all was settled.
That's all I'm going to say about it.
Thank you to those who understand and I agree to disagree with those who don't.