geckodani
Ideal_Rock
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- Jun 25, 2008
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Oy. Let me first say that I''m a newish member to the forums and have enjoyed reading about and looking at all of everyone''s gorgeous jewelry.
I''ve been married for 2 years, been wearing my ER for 3 years. It''s a .75, D, VS2, "Ideal" cut. Set in a lovely Tiffany style 6 prong with a plain band.
When it was presented to me, my husband told me that he had no clue what setting to get me, and that I could change it whenever I liked. I liked the look of the 6 prong and kept it.
3 years later, there''s nothing wrong with my ring, it''s still beautiful. But I got the itch to reset it, hubby said go for it and away I went! I ended up with something just a little bit funkier then my original, but still rather classic. (Here''s a link to the inspiration ring: http://www.engagement-ring-mountings.com/ring_settings_info_1670.htm#more_pictures) The wax of my new ring should be ready tomorrow and I''m really excited about it.
BUT - My mother in law is giving me grief about it. "I wore the same ring for 25 years." My mom is giving me grief about it, "I wore a ring I didn''t like for 15 years. There''s nothing wrong with yours." My friends are all giving me weird looks as I get excited to go and see the wax.
I''m not spending money we don''t have. In fact, I''m not spending much at all ($325 total). So - why is everyone giving me grief?
Has anyone else gotten this reaction? How did you handle it?
I''ve been married for 2 years, been wearing my ER for 3 years. It''s a .75, D, VS2, "Ideal" cut. Set in a lovely Tiffany style 6 prong with a plain band.
When it was presented to me, my husband told me that he had no clue what setting to get me, and that I could change it whenever I liked. I liked the look of the 6 prong and kept it.
3 years later, there''s nothing wrong with my ring, it''s still beautiful. But I got the itch to reset it, hubby said go for it and away I went! I ended up with something just a little bit funkier then my original, but still rather classic. (Here''s a link to the inspiration ring: http://www.engagement-ring-mountings.com/ring_settings_info_1670.htm#more_pictures) The wax of my new ring should be ready tomorrow and I''m really excited about it.
BUT - My mother in law is giving me grief about it. "I wore the same ring for 25 years." My mom is giving me grief about it, "I wore a ring I didn''t like for 15 years. There''s nothing wrong with yours." My friends are all giving me weird looks as I get excited to go and see the wax.
I''m not spending money we don''t have. In fact, I''m not spending much at all ($325 total). So - why is everyone giving me grief?
Has anyone else gotten this reaction? How did you handle it?