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Ten days ago a very close friend told me on the phone that he owed me about a thousand dollars for a project we are doing, and he'd get a check in the mail the next day.
No problem, I said.
He's always been very prompt with payments.
He also told me that a couple days back he tested positive for COVID.
I told him I wish I could cure your COVID, but let me know if there is anything I could do for you. Anything.
Like me he's older with significant medical conditions increasing his risk for serious COVID reactions, or worse.
It's now nearly 2 weeks after testing positive and I've gotten no text, voice mail, or email.
Even more concerning, no check, which is really out of character for him.
I don't have his husband's phone number or email, but they live nearby.
Here's my question.
Atheist here, but it's against my religion to just knock on anyone's door without calling first.
In this case should I just do that anyway.
Or maybe I should just leave them in the peace, which they might prefer during what is possibly a traumatic time?
I left a voice msg on his phone earlier.
Maybe I'll wait a day or two before knocking on their door.
Your thoughts?
No problem, I said.
He's always been very prompt with payments.
He also told me that a couple days back he tested positive for COVID.
I told him I wish I could cure your COVID, but let me know if there is anything I could do for you. Anything.
Like me he's older with significant medical conditions increasing his risk for serious COVID reactions, or worse.
It's now nearly 2 weeks after testing positive and I've gotten no text, voice mail, or email.
Even more concerning, no check, which is really out of character for him.
I don't have his husband's phone number or email, but they live nearby.
Here's my question.
Atheist here, but it's against my religion to just knock on anyone's door without calling first.
In this case should I just do that anyway.
Or maybe I should just leave them in the peace, which they might prefer during what is possibly a traumatic time?
I left a voice msg on his phone earlier.
Maybe I'll wait a day or two before knocking on their door.
Your thoughts?
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