idreamofcushions
Brilliant_Rock
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Would it ruin the surprise for you or make you more excited for what's coming?
I have to admit something...
I HAVE BEEN TRYING ON MY ERING EVERYDAY FOR THE LAST 2 WEEKS!!! I AM A SERIAL PEEKER!!!
OMG, that felt so good to get out. I really, truly tried to resist
but the temptation was too great
It went down like this...
BF picked up ring from the jeweler two weekends ago. He didn't want to show me until he proposed because he wanted the "final product" to be a surprise (I picked the diamond and setting, but had the jeweler change the head so I didn't know how it all turned out). I always get home from work about a half hour before him, plenty of time for snooping
. So on that Monday, I open the box halfway, am overwhelmed with guilt when I catch sight of one prong, quickly close the box and pretend it never happened.
The following day...I try the same thing, just a quick peek of the prong. But I swear to God my hands acted of there own accord - they popped that box wide open! I figured well, since I ruined the surprise, may as well take it all the way. That's when I put it on my finger
I've been doing this everyday since. I now even put it on in the morning while I get ready for work (it looks so pretty while I iron!) I can't stop myself!
Of course now I feel horribly guilty because I will have to act completely surprised when BF does finally propose. Plus in some ways I feel like I ruined the moment. In other ways, I'm like "well heck, what did he expect? He should've hid it better"
So I guess now I'm wondering if peeking does indeed ruin the proposal. Anyone want to share their experiences?
I have to admit something...
I HAVE BEEN TRYING ON MY ERING EVERYDAY FOR THE LAST 2 WEEKS!!! I AM A SERIAL PEEKER!!!
OMG, that felt so good to get out. I really, truly tried to resist
BF picked up ring from the jeweler two weekends ago. He didn't want to show me until he proposed because he wanted the "final product" to be a surprise (I picked the diamond and setting, but had the jeweler change the head so I didn't know how it all turned out). I always get home from work about a half hour before him, plenty of time for snooping
The following day...I try the same thing, just a quick peek of the prong. But I swear to God my hands acted of there own accord - they popped that box wide open! I figured well, since I ruined the surprise, may as well take it all the way. That's when I put it on my finger
I've been doing this everyday since. I now even put it on in the morning while I get ready for work (it looks so pretty while I iron!) I can't stop myself!
Of course now I feel horribly guilty because I will have to act completely surprised when BF does finally propose. Plus in some ways I feel like I ruined the moment. In other ways, I'm like "well heck, what did he expect? He should've hid it better"
So I guess now I'm wondering if peeking does indeed ruin the proposal. Anyone want to share their experiences?