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They both have issues. And I doubt it was "out of the blue".Date: 3/29/2010 9:24:15 AM
Author:PinkAsscher678
Say you know a couple. They have been together for a long time (3 years). Suddenly one day, out of nowhere the guy breaks up with the girl and says he wants to see other people.
Girl is devastated for 2 years, moves out of the country and goes into a deep depression. Guy tells mutual friends that he just wasn't attracted to her anymore and makes fun of her at get-togethers.
1 year later, guy realizes that it's hard out there in the dating world and wants the girl back. Girl is so happy he's back. Guy proposes. Girl is flashing her ring and giddy about getting married now.
I've been observing this all unfold since they were dating and it's not sitting right with me. Girl is a close friend, which makes it worse. I'm happy for her, but hope she proceeds with caution.
Could you accept a proposal from a man who basically dumped you to sleep with other people?