Cosmo_Gal
Shiny_Rock
- Joined
- Jun 26, 2008
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- 113
I know that I''m supposed to let him be the man and allow him to make all the decision about the ring/proposal. However, the excitement of being engaged overwhelmed me and I ended up somewhat ruining his plans. I managed to get him to tell me that we were going to get engaged next month after Christmas. I know I shouldn''t bug him about it, but I keep finding myself stressing over it for some reason. We''ve looked at settings online, gone to stores and looked at rings and even discussed what sort of things we''d like for a wedding. So pretty much we''re getting engaged soon, but the anticipation is killing me. I even found out he called my mom and had a long conversation with her about his plans. I picked out a particular setting and diamond that I like. Of course, I keep checking back to see if it''s still there and it is. I know I need to stop obsessing, but I can''t. It''s just not worth seeing the look of disappointment on his face because I ruined his plans. I want to continue to make plans on his own without letting me know what they are, but I also want to feel like we''re making progress.