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[LaraOnline]

Wow.

I'm so sorry. E-hugs. I'm glad this didn't drag on any longer, though. That not-knowing feeling is the worst. Better sooner than later.
I really wish you all the best. And a bunch of open communication with all future suitors!

<3

Hear Hear! Please, stay strong. Steer clear of confuzzled boys, and enjoy life on YOUR terms with NO FRETTING ALLOWED.

(I wish someone had bothered to talk to me like this, when I was in my twenties.)

here's some more:
* It's not your fault.
* It's worked out perfectly.
* You're right on track.
* You're doing well.
* Every minute spent 'being upset' is a minute more of self-punishment that YOU don't deserve.
* Marriage is a lot of washing up, anyway.

This all from a woman who felt I could somehow repay my 'debt' of sin (the unhappy romance) through guilt and even - despair!
Well God's not listening! God likes you best when you are happy! heheh