Thomperchik
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- Jul 11, 2008
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Excuse the spelling in advance, but I''m currently in a really boring training class and not suppose to do this. Short background, I met my b/f last year in October. We saw each other here and there, but didn''t take it any further until January. Previously to our relationship, he dated this girl on and off for about 6 years. Yes, that''s right, 6 years. At first I was really worried, but the more I got to know him and from what he and other people told me, they just weren''t a good match for each other. In February of this year. I had too much to drink, so I spent the night at his house and she was not aware that I was there. She showed up and made a show. She said things like, "how can you do this to me, i thought you didn''t want a girlfriend, this is so hard for me, ect." I geniunely (sp?) felt bad for her, because I understand break-ups are hard, even though she broke up with him. Its been hard becoming friends with some of his friend''s wife''s/girlfriend''s because they are friends with her and they give her information about us.
I have a facebook account as most people do and I post pictures of the things we do as a couple. I''m really happy with him, and this is the happiest I''ve been in a long time. I''m not going to stop my life, or not having my life shared with my friends to avoid having this girl''s feelings hurt because she stalks my facebook (even though it''s private). Fast forward to this past saturday... She again, show''s up drunk in the middle of the night on Saturday. She knows I''m there because my car is there. She made calls, sent him emails and texts between 2-3 am. Telling him that I was ugly, fat, he can do better, and all these really mean things about me. She even said she was really sick and that she really needed him. I told him to ask her if she was ok, but she continued to go off on him about me. I felt bad for Mr. Thomper since he didn''t know what to do, and technically it''s not his fault she''s reacting to her this way.
It obviously hurt my feelings, because no one likes to be called names by a psycho ex-girlfriend, but considering the circumstances, what should he do? She sent an email apologising the next day, but she did the same last time. I mean, how much longer do I have to tolerate that kind of behaviour?
Any advice will be openly accepted as always!
Thanks!
I have a facebook account as most people do and I post pictures of the things we do as a couple. I''m really happy with him, and this is the happiest I''ve been in a long time. I''m not going to stop my life, or not having my life shared with my friends to avoid having this girl''s feelings hurt because she stalks my facebook (even though it''s private). Fast forward to this past saturday... She again, show''s up drunk in the middle of the night on Saturday. She knows I''m there because my car is there. She made calls, sent him emails and texts between 2-3 am. Telling him that I was ugly, fat, he can do better, and all these really mean things about me. She even said she was really sick and that she really needed him. I told him to ask her if she was ok, but she continued to go off on him about me. I felt bad for Mr. Thomper since he didn''t know what to do, and technically it''s not his fault she''s reacting to her this way.
It obviously hurt my feelings, because no one likes to be called names by a psycho ex-girlfriend, but considering the circumstances, what should he do? She sent an email apologising the next day, but she did the same last time. I mean, how much longer do I have to tolerate that kind of behaviour?
Any advice will be openly accepted as always!
Thanks!