Sunshinegirl77
Rough_Rock
- Joined
- May 7, 2009
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I will try and keep this as short as possible. Bf and I have been together for 16 months. We are both in our mid 30''s. He has never been married or has any children. I am divorced with a 12 y/o girl. He has "rules" to a relationship. Date for 1 year. Live together for 1 year. Then think about an engagement. He has recently moved 800 miles away and wants to me to move with my daughter. I really want to move out of the area I am in, but I am asking for a commitment of an engagement before I move. We did live together for almost 6 months before he moved. He has finally caved at the idea of engagement and is supposed to propose the next time I come up to visit. What I want to know is am I pushing him too much for this engagement? With moving a child away from all her family and friends, am I really "off my rocker" for saying I won''t move without the engagement? Like him I want a long engagement (approx. 2-3 years for personal reasons not related to the relationship).