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There is a very long story behind this post... but the short version is that a kid I know has a parent who is a total narcissist, seemingly to the point of Munchausen By Proxy
The kid is now in a safer environment but still has regular contact with the parent (unfortunately) and it's obvious that they are still playing mind games with the child - as they always will do because as narcissists they stopped developing and have no emotional understanding or empathy.
I know several people on here have posted about their similarly narcissistic parents, which I'm always sad to read about
Please may I ask if anyone can recommend any books or websites aimed at children that might help the child understand what is going on and how to deal with it?
It is hard to explain what is happening without using the term 'total mentalist narcissist' and character-assassinating the parent... but helping the child understand and learn how to cope with the situation is going to be key in helping long-term, as the parent is never going to change (is unable to change)...
'Buckets, Dippers and Lids' has already been bought for the child:
but is perhaps a bit 'young' and a bit generalised, but the child is not really that old, so it's hard to get something that is aimed perfectly and that explains how narcissism works.
Any and all advice is very gratefully received, thank you in advance!
The kid is now in a safer environment but still has regular contact with the parent (unfortunately) and it's obvious that they are still playing mind games with the child - as they always will do because as narcissists they stopped developing and have no emotional understanding or empathy.
I know several people on here have posted about their similarly narcissistic parents, which I'm always sad to read about
Please may I ask if anyone can recommend any books or websites aimed at children that might help the child understand what is going on and how to deal with it?
It is hard to explain what is happening without using the term 'total mentalist narcissist' and character-assassinating the parent... but helping the child understand and learn how to cope with the situation is going to be key in helping long-term, as the parent is never going to change (is unable to change)...
'Buckets, Dippers and Lids' has already been bought for the child:
Amazon.co.uk
www.amazon.co.uk
but is perhaps a bit 'young' and a bit generalised, but the child is not really that old, so it's hard to get something that is aimed perfectly and that explains how narcissism works.
Any and all advice is very gratefully received, thank you in advance!