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I know this topic has been discussed before...so I hope you guys don''t mind me brining it up again.
I was married back in June and I have not yet done anything about my name (I kept as it was).
I am starting to get a little anxious about it, as we''ve had a few social situations where people have said "oh, sorry, I used your DH''s last name for yours, is that OK?" and I''ve felt bad at that moment. I just feel I need to make a decision either way.
I know I don''t want to get rid of my last name - it''s just an identity thing for me, and I just can''t imagine that my family''s name would die with me. But I am definitely considering adding his last name after mine, no hyphen. So I would have my first name, my last name, then his last name.
So say my full name would then be C M D.
How does it work for legal things (banks accounts, etc.)? Must I use the full C M D, or can I use C M or C D?
What is passed on to the children? Does the M get passed on or not?
I was married back in June and I have not yet done anything about my name (I kept as it was).
I am starting to get a little anxious about it, as we''ve had a few social situations where people have said "oh, sorry, I used your DH''s last name for yours, is that OK?" and I''ve felt bad at that moment. I just feel I need to make a decision either way.
I know I don''t want to get rid of my last name - it''s just an identity thing for me, and I just can''t imagine that my family''s name would die with me. But I am definitely considering adding his last name after mine, no hyphen. So I would have my first name, my last name, then his last name.
So say my full name would then be C M D.
How does it work for legal things (banks accounts, etc.)? Must I use the full C M D, or can I use C M or C D?
What is passed on to the children? Does the M get passed on or not?