Erin
Ideal_Rock
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You may remember me from LIW, but a lot has changed since then.
I started dating a guy with two small children, six months ago and well, we just found out Saturday we are pregnant.
Not planned, but welcomed none the less.
His exwife made the following comment to him last night after viewing me from afar for the first time.
"So this is the girl you've been seeing all summer?" Yep.
"She's kind of a big girl, don't you think?" What do you mean by that?
"Well, she's definitely not small. I know you have issues with being bald but don't you think you could have done any better?"
Let me preface by saying she makes Kate Moss look thin. And I'm well, 5'8, 38D, 30" waist and 155lbs.
Some women wouldn't mind losing a few pounds (myself included) but I think I look okay.
Since we found out we're pregnant we are on the fast track to meeting his boys, meeting the exwife, telling our parents, telling our (same) work, moving in. Most likely a wedding after the baby is born. We're both not a fan of shotgun weddings.
How the heck am I supposed to kill her with kindness (my original plan) when I now know first hand what a
she is? And of course everybody has been telling me how materialistic and arrogant she is.
Any suggestions are most welcomed. Thanks for listening.
I started dating a guy with two small children, six months ago and well, we just found out Saturday we are pregnant.
Not planned, but welcomed none the less.
His exwife made the following comment to him last night after viewing me from afar for the first time.
"So this is the girl you've been seeing all summer?" Yep.
"She's kind of a big girl, don't you think?" What do you mean by that?
"Well, she's definitely not small. I know you have issues with being bald but don't you think you could have done any better?"
Let me preface by saying she makes Kate Moss look thin. And I'm well, 5'8, 38D, 30" waist and 155lbs.
Some women wouldn't mind losing a few pounds (myself included) but I think I look okay.
Since we found out we're pregnant we are on the fast track to meeting his boys, meeting the exwife, telling our parents, telling our (same) work, moving in. Most likely a wedding after the baby is born. We're both not a fan of shotgun weddings.
How the heck am I supposed to kill her with kindness (my original plan) when I now know first hand what a
Any suggestions are most welcomed. Thanks for listening.