charbie
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my FMIL who has seemingly not made any sort of decision for this entire wedding has come out of the woodwork in full tackiness this past week.
first was the whole "oh just cross out the date on the RSVP cards and send them to my cousins."
now she has yet to contact all of them as i figured would happen. i told FI today that it''s too late, and now it''s too bad and horrifying. GRRRRRR.
then she was 2 hrs late to the bachelorette party. we told her the specific time to be there because we needed seats for the bar- and this made everyone late and was a hot mess. then she missed the bridal shower my mom planned because she "forgot" she had volunteered to pick up a shift at work.
i asked her to do ONE project this entire wedding so that she felt involved. she kept saying she would love to do anything, and she would shrug off projects so finally i just gave her one thing to do- i wanted her to be involved. i asked her to find pictures of FI: 1 of him at age 1, 1 of him at age 2, one of him at age 3, etc. for the table number project i''m doing. what does the woman do????? gives me 200 pictures of her son, in no order, with no clue how old he is in any of them. SERIOUSLY??? i asked her about this MONTHS ago and reminded her about it a million times.
today FI was on the phone with her and she began telling him who she would like to sit with, and where his grandmother would like to sit. i slaved over the seating chart. now she''s telling me she needs it changed? so that his grandma can sit with friends, not family?????? um, no. i put family with family. and to change it would be ridiculous since i''ve already emailed the table numbers to my printer for the placecards. why is she soooooooooo last minute?
i have honestly gotten along with her so well up until this point. she''s been great. i feel like she''s disrespecting me for no apparent reason, and all i''ve wanted to do was include her. FI is her oldest, so this is the first wedding. by why is she just so rude?
first was the whole "oh just cross out the date on the RSVP cards and send them to my cousins."
now she has yet to contact all of them as i figured would happen. i told FI today that it''s too late, and now it''s too bad and horrifying. GRRRRRR.
then she was 2 hrs late to the bachelorette party. we told her the specific time to be there because we needed seats for the bar- and this made everyone late and was a hot mess. then she missed the bridal shower my mom planned because she "forgot" she had volunteered to pick up a shift at work.
i asked her to do ONE project this entire wedding so that she felt involved. she kept saying she would love to do anything, and she would shrug off projects so finally i just gave her one thing to do- i wanted her to be involved. i asked her to find pictures of FI: 1 of him at age 1, 1 of him at age 2, one of him at age 3, etc. for the table number project i''m doing. what does the woman do????? gives me 200 pictures of her son, in no order, with no clue how old he is in any of them. SERIOUSLY??? i asked her about this MONTHS ago and reminded her about it a million times.
today FI was on the phone with her and she began telling him who she would like to sit with, and where his grandmother would like to sit. i slaved over the seating chart. now she''s telling me she needs it changed? so that his grandma can sit with friends, not family?????? um, no. i put family with family. and to change it would be ridiculous since i''ve already emailed the table numbers to my printer for the placecards. why is she soooooooooo last minute?
i have honestly gotten along with her so well up until this point. she''s been great. i feel like she''s disrespecting me for no apparent reason, and all i''ve wanted to do was include her. FI is her oldest, so this is the first wedding. by why is she just so rude?