blondebunny
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Okay... so after doing some research and talking with DH.... we decided that third year of med school during his clinical rotations is when we want to have our first child! DH asked me numerous times if it I really wanted to move with a baby, and i keep telling his yes... but i am not sure what im getting myself into! hahaha Okay so I have some dilemmas and would like some advice pretty please
-Okay so apparently we will be moving during 3rd and 4th year (so 2 yrs total)... we will be in some places for 3 months (maybe a little more) and some places only 6 weeks..maybe even 2-4 (although i might let DH just go alone since its a short period and I might stay at our current place at the time or with DH''s parents. I am going to try to get DH''s rotations scheduled so that we can be in certain places for the longest period of time (hopefully 4 months)... but what do i do about a nursery and baby stuff??? I pretty much need to plan a portable nursery!
---If you mommies out there can give me some advice on somethings that you loved having for you baby during the first year of their life...and the stages that you bought it... would be wonderful... I am thinking we could also store some of the stuff at the in-laws as they will have all of our other stuff and some of the rotations are by there house so we can always go to pick up stuff... I am kinda sad thinking that our baby wont really ever have the same nursery... but i plan to decorate each place we go...but with stuff that goes up and comes down easy.
--what can i do to make our life easier.... i have already started using coupons more, we are cooking more (love my crockpot!)...
---what can we do with the baby to save money?? I already plan to breastfeed for as long as possible, and i obviously cant work during the 2 years as we will be moving, so i figured it was a good time to have the baby as its free daycare and i get to see my baby group up and breastfeed and what not... I plan to save the next 2 years until we have the baby (i will be living rent and everything free for 2 years so all of my income besides groceries will be saved up!)
any other advice would be appreciated. Although our plan probably seems crazy to some of you...it works for us and we are excited to be able to start trying in a year and a half. We figured out lives with never be any easier and we would like atleast 2...probably 3 kids and we arent getting any younger (almost 26-me and 25)...so first baby will be hopefully 27-28 for me...and then wait till mid residency for the second baby.
Thank you so much!! Off to bed!
-Okay so apparently we will be moving during 3rd and 4th year (so 2 yrs total)... we will be in some places for 3 months (maybe a little more) and some places only 6 weeks..maybe even 2-4 (although i might let DH just go alone since its a short period and I might stay at our current place at the time or with DH''s parents. I am going to try to get DH''s rotations scheduled so that we can be in certain places for the longest period of time (hopefully 4 months)... but what do i do about a nursery and baby stuff??? I pretty much need to plan a portable nursery!
---If you mommies out there can give me some advice on somethings that you loved having for you baby during the first year of their life...and the stages that you bought it... would be wonderful... I am thinking we could also store some of the stuff at the in-laws as they will have all of our other stuff and some of the rotations are by there house so we can always go to pick up stuff... I am kinda sad thinking that our baby wont really ever have the same nursery... but i plan to decorate each place we go...but with stuff that goes up and comes down easy.
--what can i do to make our life easier.... i have already started using coupons more, we are cooking more (love my crockpot!)...
---what can we do with the baby to save money?? I already plan to breastfeed for as long as possible, and i obviously cant work during the 2 years as we will be moving, so i figured it was a good time to have the baby as its free daycare and i get to see my baby group up and breastfeed and what not... I plan to save the next 2 years until we have the baby (i will be living rent and everything free for 2 years so all of my income besides groceries will be saved up!)
any other advice would be appreciated. Although our plan probably seems crazy to some of you...it works for us and we are excited to be able to start trying in a year and a half. We figured out lives with never be any easier and we would like atleast 2...probably 3 kids and we arent getting any younger (almost 26-me and 25)...so first baby will be hopefully 27-28 for me...and then wait till mid residency for the second baby.
Thank you so much!! Off to bed!