Hi everyone,
Things are going pretty well these days, making some headway on the details. I ordered my slip and am about to get the invitations printed (or print them myself). I still have plenty to do but it''s coming together.
So here''s my dilemma: all along, I''ve been pretty adamant that I don''t want a shower. Reasons are that part of me really doesn''t see the point but also, all my FI''s family are out of town, 3 of 4 bm''s are out of town and the guestlist is fairly small so there wouldn''t be that many invites.
That being said, all of a sudden, I sort of want one. I have no logical explanation, I just think getting together with everyone would be fun. Awhile back, my step-brother offered his house to hold the shower. I''m not sure if they were offering to host or not but I''m sure my mom would do that if I wanted or my MOH would likely help, even though she''s out of town. But I still just can''t decide. Another thing is that my FI will be out of town for the next 6 weeks
so he likely wouldn''t attend. Would it be weird to have one w/o him here? I don''t know if his family could make it or not but would that be weird to invite them when he''s not even in town? Also, the earlier concerns are still there.. most bm''s aren''t here and I doubt they could fly in since they''re already coming in Sept. for the wedding and so mainly it would be my family and a few friends.
What do you think?
Things are going pretty well these days, making some headway on the details. I ordered my slip and am about to get the invitations printed (or print them myself). I still have plenty to do but it''s coming together.
So here''s my dilemma: all along, I''ve been pretty adamant that I don''t want a shower. Reasons are that part of me really doesn''t see the point but also, all my FI''s family are out of town, 3 of 4 bm''s are out of town and the guestlist is fairly small so there wouldn''t be that many invites.
That being said, all of a sudden, I sort of want one. I have no logical explanation, I just think getting together with everyone would be fun. Awhile back, my step-brother offered his house to hold the shower. I''m not sure if they were offering to host or not but I''m sure my mom would do that if I wanted or my MOH would likely help, even though she''s out of town. But I still just can''t decide. Another thing is that my FI will be out of town for the next 6 weeks
What do you think?