Elmorton
Ideal_Rock
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Okay, Elmorton is having a hard time being a grown-up. In the last year, I finished grad school, got married, and moved away from where I grew up. This was all very good until I woke up yesterday and realized that my closest girlfriends are more than an hour away, and even though DH is my best friend, I need some friends.
Here''s where I''m at so far in my quest for friends: my semester hasn''t started yet, so I don''t really know many people at work, but at my old job, I was the only faculty member under 30 and as a part-timer, it is bit difficult to get to know people since I''m not on campus full-time. The people I''ll be working with seem very nice so far, but I''d really like to meet friends my own age (mid 20s) and who are in the same place in life as I am - ie, not having kids quite yet. I''m also a member of the Y, and plan to sign up for a class once the next session starts up. I''ve always been involved in community service etc, so I''m very open to suggestions of civic groups to join, and we do attend a church that we love, but it has a much older congregation/lots of young families.
I know on PS, there are quite a few people who have moved across the country, gone to places where everyone is a stranger, etc. When you''re young and sans children, how do you make friends? How have you made friends in the past?
Here''s where I''m at so far in my quest for friends: my semester hasn''t started yet, so I don''t really know many people at work, but at my old job, I was the only faculty member under 30 and as a part-timer, it is bit difficult to get to know people since I''m not on campus full-time. The people I''ll be working with seem very nice so far, but I''d really like to meet friends my own age (mid 20s) and who are in the same place in life as I am - ie, not having kids quite yet. I''m also a member of the Y, and plan to sign up for a class once the next session starts up. I''ve always been involved in community service etc, so I''m very open to suggestions of civic groups to join, and we do attend a church that we love, but it has a much older congregation/lots of young families.
I know on PS, there are quite a few people who have moved across the country, gone to places where everyone is a stranger, etc. When you''re young and sans children, how do you make friends? How have you made friends in the past?