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how long did it take for you to get over him? did he dumped you or did you dump him? did you take a time-out before you started dating again?
Date: 5/1/2009 9:00:44 AM
Author: NakedFinger
well considering my FF and I started dating one month before my 16th birthday, and have been together ever since, I cant say I have that much experience
However I did have several stupid ''High school'' relationships before that, which lasted approximately 2 months each. All of which I dumped. Most I felt bad about, because they were still gaga over me, but I was just over it. There was one that was a little upsetting, we dated about 3-4 months, and he cheated on me with a stripper. He said ''it was a once in a lifetime opportunity''. I told him ''So was I....peace''
HahaDate: 5/1/2009 9:01:54 AM
Author: elledizzy5
Date: 5/1/2009 9:00:44 AM
Author: NakedFinger
well considering my FF and I started dating one month before my 16th birthday, and have been together ever since, I cant say I have that much experience
However I did have several stupid ''High school'' relationships before that, which lasted approximately 2 months each. All of which I dumped. Most I felt bad about, because they were still gaga over me, but I was just over it. There was one that was a little upsetting, we dated about 3-4 months, and he cheated on me with a stripper. He said ''it was a once in a lifetime opportunity''. I told him ''So was I....peace''
Ohhh... what I wouldn''t give to have the opportunity to say something that awesome.
Date: 5/1/2009 10:11:59 AM
Author: misskitty
Even though he dumped me, I got over my last boyfriend before B very quickly. Probably because of how awkward/annoying the breakup was.
We had been dating about 7-8 months. We were out at a bar watching a football game with some friends, and in the middle of the game, he launched into this whole speech about how he had had a dream the night before in which he met the love of his life/future wife in the UK on an upcoming business trip, and how he believed that the dream was actually a premonition. And since he was such a good guy, he didn''t want to cheat on me, even with the woman of his dreams (literally), so he wanted to be single when he went on the trip just in case. After that lame excuse, I was over it in a matter of days.
He called me six months later, immediately after landing back in the States. Surprise, surprise, his dream had not been psychic, and he hadn''t met any girls, much less The Girl.I politely declined his offer to get back together, and a few weeks later, I met B.
I love when people cheat and then try to blame you/argue with you about how you were wrong.Date: 5/1/2009 10:18:38 AM
Author: princessplease
The last guy I dated before FI was a total mistake. We met under strange circumstances, and I should''ve known it wasn''t going anywhere.
Anyway, I noticed him starting to get flaky around the beginning of December, but I attributed it to the fact that his sister, who he was very close to, just had a baby. We talked, and he told me we were fine. Assured me if something was up, I would know
We didn''t spend much time together because of holidays, but after New Years, I knew something was up. He basically fell off the face of the earth for about a week, then called me out of the blue and told me that he met someone else, and was seeing her for about a month. I got really upset, and then he told me I had no right to be mad because he took the ''high road'' and called me to end the ''relationship''.
I told him he was a scumbag, and never spoke to him again.
It took me about a week to get over him because I was fuming inside about his lies.
My longest relationship, which was almost 4 years took me a good 4-6 months to get mostly over, then pangs of pain would hit now and then for up to a year after the breakup (It was 4 years ago).
Date: 5/1/2009 10:41:01 AM
Author: princesss
Date: 5/1/2009 10:18:38 AM
Author: princessplease
The last guy I dated before FI was a total mistake. We met under strange circumstances, and I should''ve known it wasn''t going anywhere.
Anyway, I noticed him starting to get flaky around the beginning of December, but I attributed it to the fact that his sister, who he was very close to, just had a baby. We talked, and he told me we were fine. Assured me if something was up, I would know
We didn''t spend much time together because of holidays, but after New Years, I knew something was up. He basically fell off the face of the earth for about a week, then called me out of the blue and told me that he met someone else, and was seeing her for about a month. I got really upset, and then he told me I had no right to be mad because he took the ''high road'' and called me to end the ''relationship''.
I told him he was a scumbag, and never spoke to him again.
It took me about a week to get over him because I was fuming inside about his lies.
My longest relationship, which was almost 4 years took me a good 4-6 months to get mostly over, then pangs of pain would hit now and then for up to a year after the breakup (It was 4 years ago).
I love when people cheat and then try to blame you/argue with you about how you were wrong.
I had a guy cheat on me, tell me when I was dating somebody else (actually, I was dating the ex I talked about above), and then blame me. He cheated because he wasn''t getting the ''attention'' he deserved (I was 16 and not willing to boink him). Then when I (naturally) reacted poorly, he said, ''Wow, I almost feel justified in cheating on you because you''re being such a b**** about this.''
hello soul mate!Date: 5/1/2009 9:17:31 AM
Author: TheBigT
I always dumped ''em before they could dump me, and I always had the next one lined up before I got rid of the current one.
Date: 5/1/2009 9:17:31 AM
Author: TheBigT
I always dumped ''em before they could dump me, and I always had the next one lined up before I got rid of the current one.
Date: 5/1/2009 10:15:56 AM
Author: elledizzy5
Date: 5/1/2009 10:11:59 AM
Author: misskitty
Even though he dumped me, I got over my last boyfriend before B very quickly. Probably because of how awkward/annoying the breakup was.
We had been dating about 7-8 months. We were out at a bar watching a football game with some friends, and in the middle of the game, he launched into this whole speech about how he had had a dream the night before in which he met the love of his life/future wife in the UK on an upcoming business trip, and how he believed that the dream was actually a premonition. And since he was such a good guy, he didn''t want to cheat on me, even with the woman of his dreams (literally), so he wanted to be single when he went on the trip just in case. After that lame excuse, I was over it in a matter of days.
He called me six months later, immediately after landing back in the States. Surprise, surprise, his dream had not been psychic, and he hadn''t met any girls, much less The Girl.I politely declined his offer to get back together, and a few weeks later, I met B.
I feel like that story should be on some list of Top 10 Worst Breakup Excuses or something.
A premonition? Goodness!