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Brilliant_Rock
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So, if everything goes according to plan, I will be leaving my current city (DC) for my boyfriend''s city. He has already signed a lease with his school''s student housing, so officially living together is out of the question. I can''t decide if I should try to get an apartment close to his grad school (in Cambridge) or in Boston. For what it is worth, I will be working from home a lot.
I have had the experience in previous relationships of essentially living with someone sort of by default. If I get a place in Boston, I don''t think this will happen because the commute is too far. If I get a place in Cambridge, I am pretty sure it will.
So, I guess it''s the old "live together before marriage or not"? question... although I do think it''s slightly different when both people are maintaining seperate addresses.
I have had the experience in previous relationships of essentially living with someone sort of by default. If I get a place in Boston, I don''t think this will happen because the commute is too far. If I get a place in Cambridge, I am pretty sure it will.
So, I guess it''s the old "live together before marriage or not"? question... although I do think it''s slightly different when both people are maintaining seperate addresses.