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I'd be jealous because I don't even have a 2ct, but he can wear whatever he wants.
Except denim shorts.
Except denim shorts.
kenny|1392146729|3612953 said:Yup, people vary.
But this is yet another example of that age-old paradox, whether intolerance should be tolerated. (not tolerating diamonds on men)
What kinds of discrimination are to be tolerated, and which are to be called out?
I concede that how we feel about our partners is a special thing.
I tolerate things a stranger does that I would not tolerate in my SO.
I have no problem with men dressing in women's clothing, but I don't want my SO to do that.
I think it's fine to say, "I don't like my husband to wear diamonds".
But I think it is intolerance of diversity to say, "I don't like men to wear diamonds".
Men vary; but you DO get to pick which one becomes, and stays, your SO.
I also think it is fine to say, "I want my wife to be XYZ", but it is wrong to say, "I want women to be XYZ."
We certainly get a sayso when it comes to our partners since relationships are voluntary.
We usually select partners who are similar to us.
Yes, DF's question was limited to women's feelings about their husbands, but a poster said her feelings extends to all all men.
iluvshinythings|1392142371|3612885 said:I'd be jealous because I don't even have a 2ct, but he can wear whatever he wants.
Except denim shorts.
iluvshinythings|1392142371|3612885 said:I'd be jealous because I don't even have a 2ct, but he can wear whatever he wants.
Except denim shorts.
Kenny i'll be honest with you...your Octavia will definitely look better on my finger than yours...kenny|1392146729|3612953 said:Yes, DF's question was limited to women's feelings about their husbands, but a poster said her feelings extends to all all men.
Dancing Fire|1392186343|3613406 said:Kenny i'll be honest with you...your Octavia will definitely look better on my finger than yours...kenny|1392146729|3612953 said:Yes, DF's question was limited to women's feelings about their husbands, but a poster said her feelings extends to all all men.
madelise|1392098357|3612595 said:I wear what I want. He wears what he wants.