hawaii_justine
Rough_Rock
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- Oct 3, 2003
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Well I have been very involved with the picking out of my dream diamond. I was very picky in that I did not want a round diamond so my boyfriend told me to research and pick out the diamond I would want. So I did tons of research and that is how I found the wonderful pricescope site. I ended up finding the most perfect diamond and had my boyfriend purchase it. After we received the diamond and had it appraised I decided that this was in fact the diamond for me.
Now come sthe sad part. Well my boyfriend knows how important it is to me that the whole proposal thing is super romantic/surprise. Since I picked the diamond out he decided that he would surprise me by picking out the setting (of course going off of the pictures I constantly emailed him). So two weeks ago I was offically banned from asking or talking about the ring. I did know that the setting he was ordering would take four weeks so I have been under the impression that I would not be getting engaged till mid Dec. (which I was kinda bummed about because I really wanted to be engaged by Thanksgiving since we would be with all of our family). But I was okay with it and had tried to forget about when it would be coming. During this whole process of finding a setting my boyfriend has been the one to deal with the company, paid for it, and even talked with them on the phone.
Then yeseterday I got an email from the company that he was buying the ring from and they told me that the diamond was on its way here and could be picked up on Wednesday. Then just now I (my personal phone number not my boyfriends phone) got a call from Fed ex saying that the package has arrived and my boyfriend cn come pick it up.
I just don''t know what the company was thinking. My boyfriend had talked with them numerous times and expressed how important it was that I did not know anything about the ring he was choosing.
Now maybe it doesn''t seem like that big of a deal that I know when its coming but it really did make me sad because I thought the ring was coming in Dec. My boyfriend is also extremely upset because he knew that it would be coming soon and it was supposed to be a surprise that is why he said it was coming in Dec. to throw me off. I am just so sad because I really wanted it to be this great surprise.
I am sorry this is such a long post, I just needed to vent my feelings and didn''t know where else to turn. I feel bad expressing to my boyfriend how upset I am because it just makes him more upset. Thanks for listening. Justine
Now come sthe sad part. Well my boyfriend knows how important it is to me that the whole proposal thing is super romantic/surprise. Since I picked the diamond out he decided that he would surprise me by picking out the setting (of course going off of the pictures I constantly emailed him). So two weeks ago I was offically banned from asking or talking about the ring. I did know that the setting he was ordering would take four weeks so I have been under the impression that I would not be getting engaged till mid Dec. (which I was kinda bummed about because I really wanted to be engaged by Thanksgiving since we would be with all of our family). But I was okay with it and had tried to forget about when it would be coming. During this whole process of finding a setting my boyfriend has been the one to deal with the company, paid for it, and even talked with them on the phone.
Then yeseterday I got an email from the company that he was buying the ring from and they told me that the diamond was on its way here and could be picked up on Wednesday. Then just now I (my personal phone number not my boyfriends phone) got a call from Fed ex saying that the package has arrived and my boyfriend cn come pick it up.
Now maybe it doesn''t seem like that big of a deal that I know when its coming but it really did make me sad because I thought the ring was coming in Dec. My boyfriend is also extremely upset because he knew that it would be coming soon and it was supposed to be a surprise that is why he said it was coming in Dec. to throw me off. I am just so sad because I really wanted it to be this great surprise.
I am sorry this is such a long post, I just needed to vent my feelings and didn''t know where else to turn. I feel bad expressing to my boyfriend how upset I am because it just makes him more upset. Thanks for listening. Justine