DMBFiredancer
Brilliant_Rock
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- Jan 12, 2008
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i was just wondering if anyone else here is going through this...
i work days (730-330) and my FI works midnights (leaves around 8pm and comes home around 730am.) he is also taking classes towards his degree, so on 2 nights i dont even get to see him at all after i get home from work.
i''ve been pretty used to it since we started dating (5 years...lived together for 4 of them) but lately its really started to bother me for some reason. (maybe i didnt deal with how i truly felt for so long?)
i''m just wondering how you guys deal with this....is this something that can become a major issue in our marriage? will it get harder for me to deal with it as time goes on? we dont plan on having kids, so i guess im just starting to get this fear of feeling lonely most nights even though i will be married.
please share your experiences with opposite schedules and how you cope. i''d love to hear some success stories (and even some non-success stories)
thanks
i work days (730-330) and my FI works midnights (leaves around 8pm and comes home around 730am.) he is also taking classes towards his degree, so on 2 nights i dont even get to see him at all after i get home from work.
i''ve been pretty used to it since we started dating (5 years...lived together for 4 of them) but lately its really started to bother me for some reason. (maybe i didnt deal with how i truly felt for so long?)
i''m just wondering how you guys deal with this....is this something that can become a major issue in our marriage? will it get harder for me to deal with it as time goes on? we dont plan on having kids, so i guess im just starting to get this fear of feeling lonely most nights even though i will be married.
please share your experiences with opposite schedules and how you cope. i''d love to hear some success stories (and even some non-success stories)
thanks