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Brilliant_Rock
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...did you start planning? we are 1year 7months-ish away from the wedding day. We''ve been engaged since July 4th, 2008- long engagement, I know.
In that time we''ve tossed around a few ideas, cut pictures out of magazines and searched the web for inspiration, I went looking at dresses once, picked out some colors we like- but nothing too serious. Mainly because I''ve been taking full course loads, all heavy in the sciences, all critical to grad school app, so I really haven''t done too much- too much at once for me!
two weeks ago I decided, you know what, I just do not have the energy to do the main bulk of the planning, I''m on the opposite side of the state from where we''d like the wedding to be, so FI, guess what? You''re going to be the main person in charge. awesome. everything''s great. he''s happy, I''m happy.
It''s been two weeks and he''s already called caterer''s, looked up rental businesses in our area(for outside wedding), e-mailed officiants (since we''re writing our own ceremony), has a guest list very close to completed- both his and my family, pretty much picked out his suit (which is handsome, very nice), looked at sound systems and iPods (since we don''t want to pay for a DJ, rather buy stuff we can use again), has asked me about favors and what kind of cake I''d like, is comparing silks vs real flowers, asked me about centerpieces, ordered samples of invites, has talked to my mom about helping her with her yard (since she offered and we''re 99% sure we''d like to have it there)... he was visiting me this past weekend, and while I was studying he was reading through one of those bridal magazines and going through the "bride''s checklist"
what a guy. I feel like I was so incredibly lazy- and I''m now convinced that if he had let me have the reigns (since I''m kind of a control freak/perfectionist) that we wouldn''t even have a wedding because I would have had nothing done (do it perfect or not at all). two stinkin'' weeks! I''m so glad I asked him to take over... but how soon is too soon? is there even such a thing? I know I would''ve been too late, so I''m thinking his approach is better, lol, but I just wanted to read what you guys had to say.
wow, that was long- sorry!
In that time we''ve tossed around a few ideas, cut pictures out of magazines and searched the web for inspiration, I went looking at dresses once, picked out some colors we like- but nothing too serious. Mainly because I''ve been taking full course loads, all heavy in the sciences, all critical to grad school app, so I really haven''t done too much- too much at once for me!
two weeks ago I decided, you know what, I just do not have the energy to do the main bulk of the planning, I''m on the opposite side of the state from where we''d like the wedding to be, so FI, guess what? You''re going to be the main person in charge. awesome. everything''s great. he''s happy, I''m happy.
It''s been two weeks and he''s already called caterer''s, looked up rental businesses in our area(for outside wedding), e-mailed officiants (since we''re writing our own ceremony), has a guest list very close to completed- both his and my family, pretty much picked out his suit (which is handsome, very nice), looked at sound systems and iPods (since we don''t want to pay for a DJ, rather buy stuff we can use again), has asked me about favors and what kind of cake I''d like, is comparing silks vs real flowers, asked me about centerpieces, ordered samples of invites, has talked to my mom about helping her with her yard (since she offered and we''re 99% sure we''d like to have it there)... he was visiting me this past weekend, and while I was studying he was reading through one of those bridal magazines and going through the "bride''s checklist"
what a guy. I feel like I was so incredibly lazy- and I''m now convinced that if he had let me have the reigns (since I''m kind of a control freak/perfectionist) that we wouldn''t even have a wedding because I would have had nothing done (do it perfect or not at all). two stinkin'' weeks! I''m so glad I asked him to take over... but how soon is too soon? is there even such a thing? I know I would''ve been too late, so I''m thinking his approach is better, lol, but I just wanted to read what you guys had to say.
wow, that was long- sorry!