that_someone_special
Ideal_Rock
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tammy77|1339387093|3213530 said:First marriage I was 21, he was 22 and we knew each other a short 6-8 months beforehand. It lasted a very long and unhealthy 10 yrs. Second marriage at 34 for me, 30 for DH and we knew each other for about 3 yrs before marrying. We're celebrating our 1st anniversary in about 2 weeks!
I never would have married the first guy if I had been my "older, wiser" self. I also feel like my DH and I absolutely needed to get through our early 20's. There's no way we would have been compatible if we met earlier!
I met hubs when he was 26.. and let me tell you, there is NO WAY I would've dated him before that. He was still a PIA until 30 But no really, I hear stories about the dumb stuff that he has done and I remind him it's a good thing I met him then!