I''m getting the feeling that most everyone here is a huge fan of the EX cuts, polish, etc. I''ll probably always be a newbie because when I look at someone''s diamond, the only thing that turns me off is clarity and that''s only if I can see obvious black spots without looking at it very close. Just curious, without actually comparing side by side, will someone be able to tell the quality of cut and when does it become "ugly" or "cheap looking?" What do YOU think? I probably frustrate jewelers because even when comparing I couldn''t even tell a difference between an H and a J and only a slight difference between an H and a K. Eek!