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Not married, but FI and I have been living together for 1.5yrs now and we''ve certainly had our disagreements.
FI fights fairly. No bringing in old arguments, no unnecessary digs - he just sticks to the issues at hand and spells out his opinions. I, on the other hand, have this bad habit of bottling up all my problems, big and small, and then something will set me off and I''ll explode a fortnight or a month later and sometimes FI won''t even remember the original issue - which just makes it worse. I know I have my mum''s temper - I can be fuming, then laughing fifteen minutes later.. my dad, on the other hand, is able to hold a grudge for weeks, I hated that!
The making up afterward is fantastic
FI fights fairly. No bringing in old arguments, no unnecessary digs - he just sticks to the issues at hand and spells out his opinions. I, on the other hand, have this bad habit of bottling up all my problems, big and small, and then something will set me off and I''ll explode a fortnight or a month later and sometimes FI won''t even remember the original issue - which just makes it worse. I know I have my mum''s temper - I can be fuming, then laughing fifteen minutes later.. my dad, on the other hand, is able to hold a grudge for weeks, I hated that!
The making up afterward is fantastic