My problem: my husband thinks that since I have a ring, why upgrade? He doesn''t plan to upgrade his ring any time soon so why should I? I have tried explaining to him on several other occasions when it has been just he and I and the mood was right(or so I thought) and he seemed a little more open to it.
Then we went to the PS site and to the area where you can see the costs of loose diamonds. Since the jeweler I had the 2nd ring is long gone, I cannot go that route to upgrade or I would. My hubby totally freaked out
Hubby feels that since we have the original paperwork and the stones are in good shape(I get them looked at and my prongs religiously), that any jeweler should comp us the current value on an equal current setting. That is not going to happen and I checked this out with one jeweler on just this past Saturday. They said for what I have--.71 carats princess cut, VS2 and G color, with 4 diagonal baguettes, 2 side rounds--a total ring weight of 1.41 with the side stones being SI quality and G color, they would give me $3K towards a ring or upgrade in their store. Isn''t that what I should expect? I have nothing to suggest that my diamonds are certified at all or a sarin report,etc.. HELP! What do I do to help get this accomplished and help my hubby w/o making him feel "taken"?
I am not sure I have conveyed all of this mess clearly and I apologize in advance...I also thank you in advance for ANY help you can lend...