allycat0303|1389661643|3592261 said:Hey everyone,
I read every post. I was clinic when I wrote it (burst into tears.. like an UGLY cry twice) O I am just very confused.
4. He feels that if we were to do a long distance relationship, I would find someone better and leave him. And he would be stuck at 40 years old without a wife or children. Now I have to be brutally honest with guys. I have been on and off about him coming with me on fellowship. I have said that I would leave him once my fellowship was done (more then once). And I have felt that maybe being away from him for a year, would help me find direction.
About two months ago, I made him sign the equivalent of a pre-nup in Quebec...he said he didn't care, but that night, we had a huge fight. He was very irritated by it. He did ask me two or three times if I loved him and saw a future with him. And in retrospect, my answers were evasive.
I don't understand? You work 120+ hours a week. You threaten to divorce. You basically start preparing for divorce i.e. prenup. Now, you are heartbroken and confused that he is either going to leave you now or stay for the money? I have read what you wrote, and I feel sorry for your husband. I am sorry that you feel bad too. You are a very smart, hardworking woman so you will be able to move forward from this situation. I wish you and your husband the best, either together or separate.